What Type of Lover Do You Attract Natal Chart Edition Con’t…
This is a fun way to reveal the type of lover or type of energy you naturally attract into your life based on specific placements in your chart. Since I am not including specific transits, just keep in mind that this is on a broad & more thematic scale that doesn’t include what you, yourself may actually want and need from a lover. It is tapping into the type that YOU ATTRACT based on natal placements
I will be honing in on Venus sign & house, 7th house ruler & descendant, and Mars’ sign & house placements, and lastly 5th house ruler
This is a continuation from the previous post
7th House Planets:
The planets that fall into your 7th house in your natal chart can offer insights into the type of lovers and partners you may attract or the qualities you seek in a relationship. The 7th house represents partnerships, marriage, and significant others. Here’s a description of each planet in the 7th house and its potential influence on the type of lover you may attract: if you do not have any planets in the 7th house, thats okay, there are other signs in both of these posts you can reference. We all have a 7th house ruler so that just be the dominant theme of partnerships etc in your life and you can refer to that signs planetary ruler for more insight.
Sun in the 7th House: You attract partners who are strong-willed, confident, and seek recognition. These individuals may play a central role in your life and encourage personal growth through their presence.
Moon in the 7th House: You attract partners who are emotionally supportive and nurturing. These individuals offer a deep emotional connection and seek harmony and understanding in relationships.
Mercury in the 7th House: You attract partners who are communicative and intellectual. Conversation and mental connection play a vital role in your relationships, and you value a partner’s ability to engage in meaningful discussions.
Venus in the 7th House: You attract partners who embody Venusian qualities such as beauty, harmony, and love. These individuals bring a sense of grace and charm to your life, and you value relationships that are balanced and harmonious.
Mars in the 7th House: You attract partners who are assertive, dynamic, and passionate. These individuals ignite your own passion and drive, and you value a partner who can challenge and inspire you.
Jupiter in the 7th House: You attract partners who bring positivity, expansion, and growth into your life. These individuals may have a larger-than-life presence, and you value relationships that encourage exploration and learning.
Saturn in the 7th House: You attract partners who are responsible, stable, and may have a serious demeanor. These individuals value commitment and long-term goals, and you appreciate the sense of security they bring.
Uranus in the 7th House: You attract partners who are unique, unconventional, and independent. These individuals may bring excitement and change into your life, and you value relationships that allow for personal freedom.
Neptune in the 7th House: You attract partners who are sensitive, spiritual, and dreamy. These individuals may bring a sense of mystery and idealism to your relationships, and you value emotional depth and connection.
Pluto in the 7th House: You attract partners who bring intensity, transformation, and a deep emotional connection. These individuals may challenge you to confront your inner depths and seek profound changes in your life.
Mars Through the Houses:
Mars plays a significant role in attraction and the type of lover someone might attract in a natal chart. Mars represents desires, passions, and how you assert yourself. Its placement by sign and house can offer insights into the qualities you seek in a partner and the type of energy you’re drawn to. Here’s an overview of how Mars in different houses and ruled by each of the 12 zodiac signs might influence the type of lover you attract:
Mars in the 1st House: You attract partners who admire your confidence and assertiveness. They’re drawn to your dynamic energy and your willingness to take the lead.
Mars in the 2nd House: You attract partners who appreciate your determination and practicality. They’re drawn to your focus on security and your ability to work hard for what you want.
Mars in the 3rd House: You attract partners who value your communication skills and intellectual stimulation. They’re drawn to your curiosity and your ability to engage in lively conversations.
Mars in the 4th House: You attract partners who appreciate your protective and nurturing qualities. They’re drawn to your dedication to family and your ability to create a comfortable home.
Mars in the 5th House: You attract partners who enjoy your creativity and playfulness. They’re drawn to your passion and your ability to bring excitement to the relationship.
Mars in the 6th House: You attract partners who value your diligence and your willingness to be of service. They’re drawn to your practicality and your ability to contribute positively to their lives.
Mars in the 7th House: You attract partners who appreciate your assertiveness and your ability to stand up for yourself. They’re drawn to your energy and your willingness to engage in balanced and fair relationships.
Mars in the 8th House: You attract partners who are intrigued by your intensity and passion. They’re drawn to your depth and your ability to explore the deeper aspects of life.
Mars in the 9th House: You attract partners who value your adventurous spirit and your willingness to explore new horizons. They’re drawn to your enthusiasm for learning and experiencing different cultures.
Mars in the 10th House: You attract partners who admire your ambition and your determination to succeed. They’re drawn to your leadership qualities and your drive to make a mark in the world.
Mars in the 11th House: You attract partners who appreciate your uniqueness and your ability to stand out. They’re drawn to your progressive ideas and your willingness to contribute positively to your social circles.
Mars in the 12th House: You attract partners who are intrigued by your mystery and spirituality. They’re drawn to your compassion and your ability to connect on a deeper, spiritual level.
Mars Through the Signs:
Mars in Aries: You attract partners who are assertive, independent, and passionate. These individuals are drawn to your dynamic energy and enthusiasm. They appreciate your directness and willingness to take the lead.
Mars in Taurus: You attract partners who are stable, sensual, and practical. These individuals value loyalty and appreciate your grounded nature. They’re drawn to your reliability and dedication.
Mars in Gemini: You attract partners who are communicative, intellectually stimulating, and curious. These individuals enjoy your lively conversations and appreciate your ability to engage them mentally.
Mars in Cancer: You attract partners who are nurturing, emotional, and sensitive. These individuals value your caring nature and are drawn to the emotional connections you provide.
Mars in Leo: You attract partners who are confident, expressive, and charismatic. These individuals enjoy your playfulness and the attention you bring to relationships. They’re drawn to your passion and creativity.
Mars in Virgo: You attract partners who are practical, detail-oriented, and helpful. These individuals appreciate your organization and your willingness to contribute to their lives in meaningful ways.
Mars in Libra: You attract partners who are charming, harmonious, and value fairness. These individuals seek balance in relationships and are drawn to your diplomacy and willingness to compromise.
Mars in Scorpio: You attract partners who are intense, passionate, and transformative. These individuals value deep emotional connections and are drawn to your magnetic and mysterious nature.
Mars in Sagittarius: You attract partners who are adventurous, open-minded, and enthusiastic. These individuals enjoy your love for exploration and seek a partner who shares their sense of freedom.
Mars in Capricorn: You attract partners who are ambitious, responsible, and value stability. These individuals appreciate your dedication to your goals and are drawn to your strong work ethic.
Mars in Aquarius: You attract partners who are unconventional, intellectual, and value individuality. These individuals enjoy your unique perspective and seek a partner who can engage them intellectually.
Mars in Pisces: You attract partners who are compassionate, sensitive, and spiritually inclined. These individuals value your empathy and are drawn to your ability to connect on a deep emotional level.
5th House Ruler:
the ruler of the 5th house in a natal chart can provide insights into the type of romantic and creative relationships a person may encounter. The 5th house is associated with romance, self-expression, creativity, and fun. The planet that rules this house and its placement in the natal chart can offer valuable information about the nature of relationships and experiences you might have. Here’s an overview of each planet ruling the 5th house and its potential influence:
Sun in the 5th House: You may encounter relationships that are centered around shared interests and creative self-expression. These relationships often emphasize fun, playfulness, and mutual admiration.
Moon in the 5th House: Your relationships might be emotionally fulfilling and nurturing. You seek partners who provide a sense of security and emotional connection. Creative pursuits are often shared with partners.
Mercury in the 5th House: Your relationships are likely to be intellectually stimulating and characterized by lively communication. You connect through conversations, shared ideas, and mutual interests.
Venus in the 5th House: Romance and artistic expression play a significant role in your relationships. You’re drawn to partners who bring creativity, beauty, and a sense of enjoyment into your life.
Mars in the 5th House: Your relationships are often passionate and dynamic. You’re attracted to partners who are energetic, assertive, and share your enthusiasm for life.
Jupiter in the 5th House: You seek expansive and joyful relationships that offer growth and adventure. Partners bring positivity, optimism, and a sense of adventure into your life.
Saturn in the 5th House: You approach relationships with seriousness and a desire for commitment. You may encounter partners who encourage responsibility, stability, and long-term planning.
Uranus in the 5th House: Your relationships are likely to be unconventional and dynamic. You’re attracted to partners who embrace uniqueness, individuality, and who bring excitement to your life.
Neptune in the 5th House: You may experience romantic relationships that are dreamy, spiritual, and emotionally deep. Partners might share your artistic and creative sensibilities.
Pluto in the 5th House: Your relationships can be intense and transformative. You’re drawn to partners who challenge you on a deep emotional level and bring profound changes to your life.
5th House Signs:
Aries in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are energetic, spontaneous, and adventurous. These individuals enjoy your boldness and share your enthusiasm for life. They value your ability to take initiative in the relationship.
Taurus in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are sensual, stable, and value comfort. These individuals appreciate your patience and reliability. They enjoy the cozy and nurturing atmosphere you bring to the relationship.
Gemini in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are communicative, intellectually stimulating, and playful. These individuals enjoy your wit and lively conversations. They seek a partner who shares their curiosity and versatility.
Cancer in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are nurturing, emotional, and seek emotional security. These individuals value your empathy and sensitivity. They appreciate the emotional depth you bring to the relationship.
Leo in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are confident, expressive, and enjoy the spotlight. These individuals appreciate your charisma and creative self-expression. They value the excitement and passion you bring to the relationship.
Virgo in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are practical, detail-oriented, and value stability. These individuals admire your attention to detail and your willingness to contribute to the relationship in practical ways.
Libra in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are harmonious, diplomatic, and value balance. These individuals appreciate your charm and your desire for fairness. They seek a partner who can create a harmonious and equal partnership.
Scorpio in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are intense, passionate, and seek deep emotional connections. These individuals value your intensity and are drawn to your ability to create profound emotional bonds.
Sagittarius in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are adventurous, open-minded, and enjoy exploring new horizons. These individuals share your enthusiasm for life and seek a partner who can embark on exciting journeys with them.
Capricorn in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are ambitious, responsible, and value stability. These individuals appreciate your determination and your dedication to long-term goals. They seek a partner who can provide security and support.
Aquarius in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are unconventional, intellectual, and value individuality. These individuals are drawn to your unique perspective and your ability to engage in intellectually stimulating conversations.
Pisces in the 5th House: You attract lovers who are compassionate, sensitive, and spiritually inclined. These individuals value your empathy and your ability to connect on a deep emotional and spiritual level.
Remember, there are other factors that play into this like skews in the personality type of you and the other person, such as disharmonious aspects or if the planets are in their fall in certain signs such as Mars in Cancer, which brings up themes of possessiveness and jealousy. If you want another post going further into detail - you know what to do, drop a comment or if you want one specific to yourself, message me for an astro reading.
I also offer Astro Remediation which will help transmute any negative effects of planets & signs in malefics or in their detriment or fall in your chart. These remedies really help to stabilize your energy as well as the manifestations of what is meant to come toward you in a positive way!
A sign that is known for being lovely yet deceitful, shallow yet also surprisingly strategic, insightful, and potentially jealous, spiteful, or determined. Libra is associated with the surface-level, but they also encompass the idea of “more than meets the eye”. A lot of Libra’s stereotypes revolve around more shallow ideas, but below I’ve explored 3 major traits that help illustrate the complexities of the scales.
Objectivity: Libra is known for being unbiased, fair, and about equality. They are usually easygoing and level-headed. They have a strong sense of justice and are usually more logical than emotional or brash. This can be attributed to their association with intellect, balance, and the general detachment and observational side of the air element. But there are many reasons astrologers have claimed are the main motivators for Libra’s pursuit of harmony, balance, and peace. Some may cite their people pleasing nature, a fear of conflict, pressure, or flaws, an urge to always find the middle ground from an analytical standpoint, or a great need to connect and understand. Their idea of balance may also be deeply rooted in ideas of balancing two extremes, strengths and weaknesses, balancing stressful and restful times in life, a need to balance to reach self-awareness or self-protection. With all of these different motivators I think it is still worth remembering, sometimes their objectivity comes from a useful ability to rely on facts while also taking into account all sides of a situation, the ability to be open to new ideas and info.
Romantic: Most know Libra as a romantic and charming sign. They are associated with partnerships, dating, and marriage. Libra is about cooperation and avoiding conflict and flaws. Their easygoingness and longing for connection and harmony aligns with their romantic side. They have a sensitive side that admires beauty both literally and abstractly. Libra can be deep in their love and romance - finding growth and understanding from others or meaning through the excitement and mystery in the everyday. Libra can also be frivolous in their romance - approaching dating and fun with a hedonistic attitude, becoming socially competitive, living by vanity, or always staying light and detached. Romance for Libra is not always related to relationships, it may also be related to romancing their lives, hobbies, or interests.
Artistic: Libra is usually labeled with the trait of being “artistic”. While this sign can be very intellectual and logical, it can also be imaginative and creative. However Libra is usually pinned with the phrase “artistic” more so than talented or imaginative. Libra may have a connection to the arts due to their connection to beauty, leisure, and culture. The “aesthetic” side of art is a common interest for them. But they may also try to live as an artist by enjoying the small or unusual things, taking time to indulge and relax, being romantic and soft, being curious, and experiencing both the shallow and deep side of people and life. Libra is an air sign and has a level of detachment to them. They may struggle to understand and process their emotions. But through art Libra may find emotional understanding and processing. Many air signs find themselves attracted to or fascinated by artistic pursuits for this very reason. Practicing their art may also help Libra to sharpen their social intuition. Maybe help them balance intellect vs. emotion.
A lot of people in the accounting field have cancer placements in their chart. Surprisingly it’s not virgo placement that dominates the field.
Aries people maybe impatient but they certainly can do small things everyday for a very long periods of time. They tend to be naturally popular too.
Tauruses are good people to be around. They make you feel valued and loved.
Gemini people are very social. They joke and play around bisexually. They’re pretty loving and caring too out of the air signs
Leos are real great friends. They stand up to you and are naturally the center of attention. They usually are the anchor of their social groups. People just are magnetized to these people
Virgomen are aesthetically pleasing. They have great sense of style. They are extremely hardworking and they tend not to stop until they perfect their craft.
Libra men are social and friendly. They typically experience bullying of some sort.
Scorpio men are persistent and stubborn. When they’re passionate about something, it’s all or nothing. Scorpio placements tend to be successful in the things they do. Scorpios are usually at the top of their field
Sagittariuses are very loving when it comes in their relationships. They are very social beings too and naturally funny. If they’re introverted, they tend to be awkwardly funny.
Capricorns possess artistic abilities whether that be drawing or singing. They tend to be eager and determined. Usually the funniest in the group.
Pisces are one of the most caring individuals out there. They’re pretty social beings as well. You’ll often see them posting their girlfriends in their stories. They also tend to do well in their fields and are very artistic and creative. They’re pretty loving and has no problem showing their love for their partners to the world
Aquariuses can explain a complex topic to you like you we’re five. A lot of them have problems with their father too. they probably didn’t have a great time with their father early on their lives. Either they didn’t get along, got separated or absent.
everyone has their own definition of a dream girl - a girl who is simply everything we want or everything we want to be. i strongly believe that discipline and the law of assumption can help anyone become their own version of a dream girl. so why not just manifest that into your reality?
start by figuring out exactly what it means to be a dream girl to you.
what’s her name? what does she do for a living? how much money does she make? what about her education? where does she live? what does she look like? what does her body look like? what kind of clothes does she wear? what kind of person is she? what does her morning routine look like? what does her day look like? what does her night routine look like? what are her hobbies and interests? how does she see the world and other people? how do other people see her? what are her goals in life? what kind of people does she surround herself with? what does she do in her free time?
now the most important thing is to answer those questions like you’re talking about yourself. not “she is…” but “i am…”. i suggest you write it down somewhere just so you can come back to it whenever you need it.
answer those questions and add whatever details you want your dream girl to have. please remember that this is the version of a girl who is perfect to YOU. don’t feel like your answers have to be something that other people consider perfect, just describe the version of yourself who is truly happy with her life.
now that you know what a dream girl is to you, tell yourself that you are that girl. i don’t wanna hear any “oh but she’s rich and i’m not” or “oh but she’s this and that and i’m not”. no! she is you and you are her. if you can imagine it you can have it. think about what your life would look like if you were that girl. daydream, make plans, journal, create vision boards, do whatever that helps you be in the dream girl state. you are your dream girl, that’s it. you look like her, you talk like her, you walk like her, you are her. no matter what shows up in your reality, that doesn’t matter, you’re becoming your dream girl and nothing and no one can stop you.
something that will definitely help with that is doing the things on your list that are possible for you right now. if your dream girl wakes up early and you know that it’s possible for you then start waking up early as well. if your dream girl does yoga and you have enough time and are physically able to do it, start doing yoga. you don’t have to start with extremely expensive products and routines, just whatever is possible for you right now. do whatever will help you stay in that state and the rest will simply come to you :)
